9 tips to recognize a liar and not get fooled anymore.
Not being fooled anymore when someone tells us a lie is not for everyone.
Being able to recognize the gestures, facial expressions and words that betray a liar is a huge advantage. We lie very often.
Whether it's harmless little lies or big pipos, human beings have always been lying and have done so on a regular basis.
Learn how to spot liars so you don't get tricked again.
A study on lying was conducted by researchers at the University of Massachussets. The results are amazing:
- When two strangers meet, they lie to each other from the first 10 minutes of their meeting. Example: "Yes I love my job, it's really fulfilling ..."
- A married couple lies to each other about once every 10 interactions. Example: "Honey, you look even slimmer in this dress, promise ..."
- When you are not married, you lie once every 3 interactions !!!
- A teenager lies to his parents on average once in 5.
When we lie, our body expressions and our way of speaking betray us.
In general we detect 54% of the lies we are told.
With a little practice, you will soon be able to recognize up to 90% cracks and other canards ...
This method makes it possible to detect the real lies, those that one tells you when one does not want or that one is afraid to tell you the truth and to recognize the lie of a man.
On the other hand, you will not necessarily be able to detect the small exaggerations of your loved ones with these 10 tips.
The 10 tips to avoid getting trapped
According to the research of the American writer, Pamela Meyers, author of "Liespotting", here are the gestures, mimicry and expressions to which a liar uses when lying to you.
Retain them to improve your own lie detector.
1. A liar takes distance from the alleged facts
When Bill Clinton says "I haven't had sex with this woman" he could have said "I haven't had a relationship with Monika but he chooses to take some distance to make us believe that he has her. barely knew, that he does not even remember his name ...
2. A liar uses precise and restrictive expressions
The best known being: "To tell you the truth ...". Thank you for specifying it, I would have thought you were going to fuck me if not ... :-)
3. A liar repeats the question before answering it
Why ? To allow him to save time to formulate his answer. A person who speaks the truth is more spontaneous and words come easily.
4. A liar looks you in the eye for too long
A person who is telling the truth only keeps in touch for a short time when they look you in the eye.
A liar who tries to convince you is going to put more effort into it.
Keeping in touch for too long is one of the never-failing signs, explains Pamela Meyers in her book.
5. The false smile of the liar
When you lie the emotions are wrong because they have no connection with the truth.
The liar to transcribe emotions can be made to smile. Except that it is almost impossible to reproduce a spontaneous smile.
Besides, we can see it clearly in our photos, we always have a frozen smile that makes us ugly. A forced smile resembles that of photos where only the mouth smiles.
When you give a real smile, the eyes contract because of the emotion produced and small wrinkles appear at the corners of the eyes. A real smile can be seen in the eyes.
6. The liar gives too many details
To prove his lie, the liar will push the details a little too much. It's unnatural.
When you start to wonder why we are telling you all these details, it's because there is an eel under the rock or even a whale under the gravel.
7. The liar can suggest how to punish the "real culprit"
If the liar feels guilty, he may be asked to indicate how he would punish the "real culprit".
In general, someone who is telling the truth does not need to enter into this type of consideration.
At the sight of such behavior, your lie detector should go to the "Level 3 Alert" stage!
8. A liar will not be able to tell his story backwards
If you sense something unclear in what you are being told, ask questions by reversing the timeline.
When you lie it is very difficult to tell your story starting from the end.
This technique is also used by the best police investigators ...
9. A liar points his feet out
Body language matters a lot. A negative attitude with arms crossed and feet pointing outward are signs that never fail.
Someone who wants you well will tend to point their feet towards you and speak with open arms ...
For these techniques to serve you, remember that communication between two human beings is not an exact science and that each one expresses himself differently according to his shyness, his mood, his personality.
To make mistakes as little as possible, try to understand the person talking to you.
Pay attention to the way this person usually looks at you, their manners, their gestures.
You'll be better able to spot lies and catch a liar.
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